First off, I’m having a super hard time dropping the “S” from this twice-annual event. It’s been “daylight savings time” my whole life. Kinda like how “February” doesn’t actually have an “R,” whereas, “Washington” does. Not kidding on that one – just ask my rural Virginia kinfolk. Also, how confusing is the English language to young kiddos learning to spell things like “knife,” that’s got a “K” that plays hide ‘n seek with you?
But I’ll (maybe) tow the line for all you grammar geeks out there. So we can all learn how to rock daylight SAVING time.
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Here’s the skinny: PLAN AHEAD.
Children like bedtime routines. And mommas like it when children go to bed.
Enter: daylight saving time – the fall edition. That random night where bedtime is completely blown to Hell. And the kiddos turn into zombies because what is now 7:30pm was 8:30pm yesterday. At least it’s suddenly dark is shit. You do have that in your favor, which is more than we can say for daylight saving time – the spring edition.
The issue is that the kiddos wake up when the kiddos wake up. If they usually get up at 5:45am, this is now technically 4:45am (Lord, help us.) You can tell them to go back to sleep, but does that ever work? (You can read my tips on dealing with an early riser in this post.)
If little Betsy has been awake since 4:45am, the new 7:30pm is pretty frikkin’ late in her world. I’m guessing once you all got home from school or daycare or work or soccer practice or flute lessons and ate something and tried to fit in a bath, book, bedtime snuggles, somewhere along the way, dear Betsy lost her shit.
Let me help you out.
Push bedtime back just slightly, like, in increments of 15 minutes, starting the Monday before daylight saving time – the fall edition – arrives.
Here’s a sample schedule that works in our house:
Monday – bedtime is 7:30pm –> push it back to 7:45pm
Tuesday – bedtime is now 7:45pm
Ooh, HALLOWEEN! Candy is your friend – you gotta keep little Betsy up long enough for the sugar to get out of her system, so use this to your advantage when pushing back bedtime.
Wednesday – push bedtime back to 8pm
Thursday – bedtime is now 8pm
Friday – push bedtime back to 8:15pm
Saturday – bedtime is now 8:15pm
Sunday – bedtime is now technically 7:15pm and you can push it back to 7:30pm if you want
To succeed, you might need to move meals and naps back a bit, too, each day.
By Sunday, you’ve ROCKED daylight saving time – the fall edition. Because orange is the new black, I mean, 7:30 is the new 8:30. (Right? I basically suck at trying to figure out which way the clock goes whenever daylight saving
s comes around. I have an MBA, but this clock math blows my mind.)
If this plan doesn’t work, watch this video that is CRACKING me up. It’ll make you feel better:
The cool thing about daylight saving – the fall edition – is that you have darkness on your side. Plus, THE WEEKEND!
If little Betsy is crazy on Saturday or Sunday because you keep messing with her bedtime, you can force a nap midday – the splendid car-nap (sometimes) works at our house.
And Betsy can sleep in later in the morning on Saturday and Sunday to make up for this bedtime disruption. HA! I bet she won’t!! But we can at least tell ourselves that’s a possibility.
The goal in all this is that by Monday, after daylight saving arrives, when everyone goes back to life with school and daycare and work, Betsy’s body will have adjusted a bit better than the kids at school whose parents just said, “Oops! Sunday night you go to bed an hour later – good luck with having a great day tomorrow on an hour less of sleep!”
You think losing an hour of sleep is no big deal?
Maybe you’re not worried about heart attacks, but let’s be honest. We’ve all seen our kids act like they’re jacked up on crack because of sleep deprivation. When your kid needs 10 hours of sleep, your kid needs 10 hours of sleep, amiright? So help him out with the slow slide into daylight savings.
Otherwise, trying to figure out if daylight saving has an “S” or not will be the least of your worries. Hello, crazy, bleary-eyed zombie child!
REMEMBER: all it takes is 15 minutes a night starting a few days prior to do your kiddo good.
What are your tips for daylight savings? Share them below or on Facebook at MothersRest.
Loving these tips mommas shared on Facebook.
I started prepping, like, 2 weeks ago – LOL. I also started moving meal times by 15-30 minutes the past few weeks as well. Hoping this year goes better than last year. We only adjusted bedtime last year and that was a huge flop….figured if we adjusted meal times as well this year, we would have a better outcome. Either way…if my kid wakes at 5:30, his butt is staying in his room till 7 – LOL. Thankfully he just talks to himself and rolls around until we go get him.
–Sara, mom of an adorable 18-month-old little guy
We usually start on Thurs or Fri night… and just prepare mentally – LOL!
–Meredith, boy mom
This is awesome. But I still refuse to call it anything other than daylight savings. Thanks for reminding me. I always forget until Thursday or Friday and by then its too late…
–Brooke, dog doc and mom of two fabulous girlies
I did enjoy the article! The more I got to thinking about it, the more I think we could at least try pushing back the bedtime – at least the last night feeding by 15 minutes, which can (in theory) push back all the others? At least I could say I tried if we did that.
-Hannah, first time mom
Hi! Not sure if you remember me, but I commented on your post about the daytime saving prep for babies in Mommywood. Well, since my little one doesn’t have the best nap “schedule,” we just moved back her feedings over the course of the week, which moved back bedtime. And, guess what? IT WORKED. It’s like the time change never happened! I’m in complete shock.
-Hannah, the first time mom who commented above. So thrilled these tips worked for her! #love